Money Saving Deal

Shadows D asked:


My boyfriend and I have been going out over a year and I really feel
the relationship should have moved on by now. Despite the fact that I am
23 and he is 24, he still lives with his parents while I rent. We live
at oppososite ends of the city so seeing each other means commuting all
the time.
I would like us to rent an apartment together, but he will not move out
of his parents house. He uses all kinds of excuses, but mostly says he
doesnt want to waste money on renting when we could save for a house.
The fact is I know he will never do this as he is a poor saver and lacks
motivation. We have no privacy really, and I am wearing of the
situation. Eventually he agreed to move out and I decided to drop the issue and
wait for him to take the initiative. Well he didnt, and I have now
told my landlady Im leaving in 4 weeks. I told him this, expecting him to
tske the hint but instead he just said that I could still visit him at
his house when I wanted. It seems he intends to stay with his parents
for the long run.
I dont want to be pushy but we are in out twenties and I want this to
move on to a more adult relationship. In your opinion, what can I do to
get him out of that house???? I HAVE to move now, and I am short on
time.

Shadow

Lucille

guyzee80 asked:


firstly my upbringing and my own view throughout life in terms of career has been work hard, earn money , save for future, be generous with family friends and charities and dont waste money. I wanted a job which gave me at least moderate satisfaction, paid well(according to my standard) , had good prospects and was in demand.
I av got this.. work ashealthcare professional and currently earning 3 times average salary for a person of my age in my country, i work with friendly helpful staff and in an area where living expenses are low… Problem is, aft left uni,friends moved, cant cope with stress of working(only 40hrs) and with living completely on my own in new city, to make it worse i dont drive (have attempted test 5 times) friends in next city i see on weekends, all i do is comfort eat when i get home till im bloated and no amount of hobbies,activities etc deal with the loneliness, I moved from my parents to this job as ALL salaries, staff and ppl where parents live were bad4me

Reginald