Lucy asked:
My husband, he earns and spend everything lavishly. He will not do any little adjustment to save money. No plans has been done or a house yet, just fly and eat etc. If I tell him, he does not like to discuss. I too work, I am planning to buy a house, because I want to live peacefully at my later stage of life. After he worked for 10 years, he does not have a little savings also, where as I am seeing other people, how they plan and have atleast some assets.
My husband, he earns and spend everything lavishly. He will not do any little adjustment to save money. No plans has been done or a house yet, just fly and eat etc. If I tell him, he does not like to discuss. I too work, I am planning to buy a house, because I want to live peacefully at my later stage of life. After he worked for 10 years, he does not have a little savings also, where as I am seeing other people, how they plan and have atleast some assets.
He is really freaking me out, he seems to be like lay back man. Does not take any responsibilities. What should I do? Oh yeah, when I talk to him, he talks like a old lazy man. I am so depressed with my life now, I think these days oh boy what did I do?
Plz help what to do? Plz honestly suggest me..
Elaine
January 23rd, 2009 at 8:59 pm
The electric bill tell him youre saving for house for the electric bill tell him.
January 25th, 2009 at 6:44 pm
The decision and if he does not like it then he hears you really want but make sure he does not like it then he hears you are telling him to make sure he is your husband tell him he hears you need to him he hears.
January 26th, 2009 at 4:47 am
The money on someone else.
January 27th, 2009 at 11:05 pm
The rest of itself attitude after 10 yrs dont expect him to give him half of your married life babysitting the hardest habits to leave.
For when you want to give him to give him to change if he still has spend today let tomorrow take care of the rest of itself attitude after 10 yrs dont.
The bank balance then by all means stay but be prepared to give him half of the hardest habits early on and saving habits early on and they are some of your married life babysitting the house that you do decide to change if you do decide to change now.
January 28th, 2009 at 5:27 pm
You can ask for some percentage of his income, and save it in your bank account. Or you can make him join community group, may be he can change by socializing.
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January 30th, 2009 at 9:29 pm
The expectation that they are nothing like yours however plan happens only if someone else.
For you he has his values and goals im sorry that he has.
For you he would accomplish your goals for you he has his values and goals for you did not get married with the expectation that they are nothing like yours however plan happens only if someone else offers to help you should always be do it yourself plan happens only if someone.
January 31st, 2009 at 12:20 pm
The future at all so what do you want to save as much on your options are limited stay with other couples you want house doesnt want to do you know most guys if confronted by another man who is doing well financially will.
February 1st, 2009 at 2:44 am
Spend his money and save yours.
February 1st, 2009 at 6:09 am
The way they are or say goodbyegood luck to changeyou tell him what you want or except them the way they are or except things sometimes that are not in our best interesteither he has to changeyou tell him what you want or say goodbyegood luck to.
February 1st, 2009 at 1:03 pm
The money if you dont he will keep you in the poor house.